| A book to make lawyers (and others) take an honest look at themselves.
Resurrecting Aesop:
Fables Lawyers Should Remember
by Mike Papantonio
with a Foreword by
Robert F. Kennedy Jr.;
a Seville Publishing Book, 2000;
259 pages;
$24.95.
A Review
By JOHN ACUFF Special to the
HERALD-CITIZEN
Aesop, the ancient Greek fabulist who
probably is legendary and never really lived, has never
really died either.
Mike Papantonio, a very skilled and
successful trial lawyer and speaker, has taken several of the
fables which have come down to us and aimed them squarely
at those who practice law. As you read them, you'll
wonder how a sage of yore, dead perhaps thousands of years,
could see you in Big, Rich & Ruthless, P.C. on the 33rd
floor of the city's newest building. Trust me; this
country lawyer pondered the same thing as he read
Resurrecting Aesop: Fables Lawyers Should Remember.
Papantonio, because he lives as a lawyer and
with lawyers, is able to pierce our crafted personas, our
gilded barricades, and see right through the defenses we set
up in secretaries, paralegals, legal assistance and of
course our barrage of BS. He causes us, if we read the book,
to examine the foundations on which we base our lives and to
examine the resulting view of the world and the values we
place on people and things.
We are urged to consider how we live, how we
relate to our nearest and dearest, our peers, clients and
ultimately how we value ourselves. He wants to know if we
are truly at peace with it; and if not, are we willing to
consider the wisdom of the ages from a variety of cultures,
religions and people?
The author uses to great effect a survey he
recently mailed to a significant number of lawyers as well
as surveys done by others. He quotes from The New Jersey
Lawyer an article that headlined the following apparent
facts in order to get our attention:
One out of every four lawyers suffers from
elevated feelings of psychological distress, their primary
complaints being, in order - interpersonal feelings of
inadequacy and inferiority, anxiety, social alienation/isolation/depression. Out of 105 occupations, that of
lawyer rated first in depression; 45 percent feel that they
don't have enough family time and 54 percent do not have
enough time for themselves.
If you are a lawyer or live around them, you
know deep inside that these numbers are, if anything, on the
low side. Take five minutes and consider each of the
statements. You are not trying to impress a client, a jury or
all your peers at a bar meeting where everyone is wearing
five colored ribbons to prove they belong.
Mike Papantonio calls us to at least be
honest with ourselves. Five minutes will convince you that
you should take off a day or more by yourself with no agenda
except to consider: who you are, and how that is different
from the truly fine per- son you could be.
He uses examples I would have never
expected, like Lee Atwater, the caustic speech writer and
take-no-prisoners activist for the Republican Party. Lee, in
his last days, met a "carpenter" he could neither
bluff nor escape and began to change his ways and ask
forgiveness from the ones he had attacked.
He also quotes solo practitioners and those
the rest of us think have arrived. You should understand that
most of those income tax returns will not exceed or equal
that of the author.
Various of the fables are used to illuminate truth, such as that lawyer who is sometimes envious
of comer offices, restored airplanes or cars, expensive
hobbies and the power emanating from some of his big city
peers. In the fable, the city mouse visits his country cousin
and tells him of all the good life in the city in such
glowing terms that the country cousin has to go and see.
Reading the fable made us less envious. The
city comes with traffic jams, few if any relationships of any
depth among lawyers even in the same firm and a horrid stress
level which are all incorporated in the very large cat that
eats mice and, if not their bodies, then so often their
souls.
The author calls us to examine the dog that
has discovered a truly large and wonderful bone and is very
happy with it until, while crossing a footbridge, he sees in
the water below what appears to be a dog with an even
bigger and better bone and drops his bone to dive into the
water to take the new bone.
As he hits the water, he realizes that he
has given up the wonderful bone he had for an illusion. What
is the bigger bone that tempts us? A new expensive car, a new
office, a new level of fame and, money or a new late model
spouse that will understand and adore, at least until they
discover what little we are willing to contribute to the
relationship.
Be wary of giving up the really good for
that which may be only the lure of vanity or pride. It's
like a dog chasing a car - stop sometime and see if the dog
has a clue what to do with a car.
How long has it been since you took a class
that was not CLE approved? Recently read any books not
guaranteed to improve your trial skills or your income or how
to meet and impress people? Has it been longer still since
you went to see the really significant people in your
life's journey, not just to get your ticket punched to
avoid guilt but with no agenda except to be with them.
You might consider your parents if you are
blessed to still have them; your mentor in life or college
(read Tuesdays with Morrie), maybe even your siblings or a
favorite relative. We should read here and ask ourselves
how long it's been since we took someone to lunch without
having something we wanted from them.
The book examines the danger of comparing
ourselves to others. We do this in two ways, by picking
someone that we consider inferior to us and using the
comparison to boost our view of ourselves; or we look at some
one with a bigger and better bone and say, "If I can
just get there, I'll be content. I'll have time for
(insert the names of spouse, children...).
This book, like Papantonio's earlier In
Search of Atticus Finch and Clarence Darrow: Journeyman,
should be required reading in every law school. It is sad
that instead of places where the profession is taught as a
vocation, the schools are too often prouder of the starting
pay of its graduates and the places of price and power they
now occupy.
Bobby Kennedy Jr. wrote the foreword to this
book, and consequently I picked it up with a certain
cynicism about what he would add other than an endorsement of
Papantonio's writing. But,I discovered that they were
in most places on the same page and that Kennedy very
succinctly says not in parables but in clear English what he
thinks is important.
Young Kennedy explains that healthy ambition
is the desire to do God's will and to enjoy his blessings
and that Papantonio's conclusions confirm his own beliefs
that good behavior results in good results and even if it
does not in terms of victory or riches, it still gives you
the satisfaction of a life well lived, a good reputation, the
respect of peers - all of which exceed in value the illusory victories of money and fame.
This is a short book but you should be
warned that if you read it and reflect on it, it could
forever change the way you live and practice and cause you
to buy a copy for some other tired, hurting, lonely lawyer
who acts like it is all cream and cherries.
John Acuff is a Cookeville attorney. |